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Well-being
Well-being may be thought of as a sense of satisfaction with one's
health, circumstances and lifestyle. A child's sense of comfort,
trust in their parents or caregivers, hope for the future, feelings
of security and of being loved come from the respect and caring
they are shown in the family circle. Family interactions are more
important than economic situations, unforeseen stresses or temporary
upheavals in a child's life. Children are able to successfully overcome
adversity with the love, understanding and acceptance of a supportive
family.
- Good physical, mental and emotional health all go hand-in-hand
to create a sense of well-being.
- Children need to feel special and cared about by their family
and friends.
- Children who enjoy a strong feeling of well-being can approach
new situations with confidence.
Self-esteem | Happiness
Self-esteem
- Self-esteem can be described as a sense of self-confidence,
self-respect and self-acceptance. It comes from a feeling of being
loved and accepted by others and by the child being able to do
tasks and solve problems on her own.
- Children with good self-esteem have a positive attitude about
them and are able to approach life's challenges in a more positive
manner. They will generally have greater success at anything they
undertake. They will be rewarded throughout life with a more profound
feeling of satisfaction and enduring happiness. They will be more
eager learners, have more friends and build happy, healthy relationships
throughout life.
- Parents and teachers share the responsibility of building a
child's self-esteem. It is important for both to establish healthy
communication with the child under their care. In doing so, they
will build a trusting, and long-lasting relationship with the
child.
- Healthy communication is the kind that creates a strong two-way
bridge between adult and child. It helps the child:
- Feel cared for and loved
- Feel safe and not alone with her worries
- Learn to tell an adult what she needs and feels
- Learn how to manage her feelings safely.
- Parents and teachers should:
- Be available
- Be a good listener
- Show empathy (understanding and appreciating her feelings)
- Be a good role model (be the kind of person you want the
child to be).
Happiness
- Happiness is a subjective feeling of satisfaction or contentment
with one's life. This pervasive mood may be closely related to
temperament - some individuals are generally happy, while others
are generally gloomy or dour.
- Temperament may be largely inherited, but circumstances and
environment play a role as well.
- Many parents have noticed temperament differences in their
children within the same family.
- Parents cannot guarantee happiness for their children; they
can, however, encourage positive feelings within the scope of
the child's temperament.
It is clear that parents can do much to ensure the health and well-being
of their children. Teachers, grandparents and other relatives can
also have a great impact. When adults, who are entrusted with the
care of a child, have a good understanding of healthy nutrition,
immunizations, fitness, safety and the general well-being of children
the long-term outlook for the child is significantly enha
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